Play is engagement in an activity that is enjoyable. Play can look very different for each individual as we all have different preferences and abilities. Play can be boisterous or contemplative, it can occur alone or with others, and it provides opportunity for exploration that allows children to grow and develop.
Childhood is a time of growing, learning, and engaging in play. Through play children interact with and learn about their environment. Play facilitates development and maturation of age-appropriate skills in children, such as: motor coordination, strength, social skills, communication, self-confidence, problem solving, and the ability to control their emotions and behaviors.
When children engage in play they learn about their bodies and how to coordinate their movements. Babies begin to develop awareness of their body by grasping their hands together and grabbing toes. Tummy time and other positional play activities in early childhood facilitate strengthening of muscles. Increased muscle strength, body awareness, and coordination are foundational building blocks for development that help children thrive and reach developmental milestones.
Children are motivated to do increasingly challenging movements during play such as rolling to reach a toy or crawling after a ball; his or her ability to complete more complex movements can be tracked as developmental milestones. Some examples of developmental milestones include: smiling, rolling, making sounds, reaching, waving, sitting up, crawling, and walking. While there are predictable patterns of development every child’s unique capability as well as intrinsic and extrinsic factors allow for variability to when milestones occur.
Play helps develop an awareness of our surroundings and concepts of our world. As children grow, play is how we develop friendships and learn about social interactions. Play is a way to engage in activities that help relieve stress and facilitate a positive self-image. Reciprocal play with peers teaches children about sharing. Building with blocks and legos as well as creating arts and crafts help children gain skills and confidence as they challenge themselves and solve problems.
Every child’s strengths and challenges are different, so activities that we define as play can be as unique as our children are. The most important part of play is to have fun. Below are some ideas to remember when facilitating play with your child:
Every child has different preferences, developmental needs, as well as strengths and challenges. Some companies put age ranges on their toys to help guide families to age appropriate toys. These age ranges are helpful but remember every child is different and develops differently so just because the box say your child’s age range, does not mean it’s the right toy for him or her. You want your child to be successful at engaging and playing with the toy. In occupational therapy we call this the ‘just right’ challenge--something that encourages learning but is not too difficult.
Consider if the toy can be used or played with in different ways such as blocks that can be stacked, knocked over, used to build a house, or a train. Finding toys that have many different ways to play with them helps children be successful and creative. It may also be helpful to ask: Is the toy easy to move and can it be played with in more than one position? If the toy can be moved, then play can happen in different locations. If it can be used during tummy time, sitting and in standing then it will encourage a variety of different developmental postures.
Remembering that child’s developmental age is more important than his or her date of birth can help parents find toys that will help their child mature and grow. While many of the below listed toys are appropriate across the life span here is a general guide to toys and games based broadly on age:
Play is a child’s occupation; the effort that they invest in play helps them to further develop and grow. When children have challenges expressing age appropriate play skills, this can indicate a need for further assessment. If you have concerns regarding your child’s play skills and development, it is always a good idea to talk to your pediatrician.
Occupational therapy (OT) is a skilled allied health profession that works with children of all ages to ensure that they are able to participate in age appropriate every day activities that they need and want to do- their occupations. Occupational therapists modify and adapt activities—including play-based activities--so that children of all ability levels can successfully engage and participate in play in order to grow and develop. At High Hopes, OT is among the therapies we offer to support children and their families. We are always happy to assist families in ensuring their children are meeting their milestones and developing their independence.
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